social media boundaries + confident conversations + growing together over time instead of further apart

I’m building this because I learned that knowing something hurts + feels wrong inside and knowing what the hell to actually DO and say about it are two very different things.

Maybe you’ve tried to explain it 3682347 times in 2739 different ways. Maybe you’re pretending you’re cool with things that actually make you feel disconnected, turned off, or like you’re competing for your own partner’s attention (ughhhhh, I know).

And maybe you’re starting to wonder if the loyalty you want is just you asking for too much. (It’s not!!!)

You’re allowed to take what you want seriously. And you deserve to feel equipped with a solution to this all-too-common problem women are facing with the rise of social media usage and access to literally anything being so easy online.

My husband and I went through our own reset when we were disconnected and struggling, too. We had to get honest about the online (AND OFFLINE, HELLO) habits that were hurting our commitment, so we worked hard AF to create boundaries we agreed on, and cleaned up how we were showing up for each other.

That experience is the starting point for what I’m creating for you. Because I believe one very important thing about relationships:

You can’t grow together unless you have trust, loyalty, and safety as your baseline. So, we gotta start there.

From my experience with this, if you aren’t on the same page about what it means to protect and respect your relationship, you won’t ever feel safe enough to grow.

Inside The Loyalty Reset, I’ll be walking you through what we did ourselves, giving you a step-by-step process to:

• Get clear on what crosses a line for you, including porn use and social media behavior

• Put words to what hurts and what you need, with scripts for hard conversations

• Invite your partner into shared agreements about what loyalty looks like in your relationship

• Recognize follow-through and know your next steps, including what to say and do if he dismisses your concerns or says no to growth

My hope is to help you create an opportunity to grow together by starting with trust, loyalty, and emotional safety. And you can start this work even if he isn’t ready to do it with you.

You can learn how to speak up and reach for the type of love you know in your heart you deserve. His willingness to listen, learn, and act is his part.

The reset is still in the works. I’m building away over here!! To hear when it’s ready and get VIP pricing, join the list and let’s do this, babe. No more, “Ew…he’s following HER?” (lol, I know. I said this sh*t to myself for way too long before I decided to do something about it.)

Whether you join me for The Loyalty Reset or this is where we part ways, there’s one more thing I want you to hear…